Link Love

Link Love

Can you believe Christmas is almost here? I’m really excited! It’s even more exciting with everything we have going on. We’re ready to get our house and now that we’ve booked our wedding venue, I’m so ready to get started planning. It’s really hard to juggle so many things at once, but one thing I’m learning is to just have fun. As soon as you stop having fun, it all feels like work.

I launched a new project yesterday called The Blog Manual! Some recent posts include how to find your blogging voice, 10 ways to get more blog traffic, and how to start a blog.

Self-employment is not for everyone. Check out these 4 reasons to skip self-employment.

Are you ready for 2015? Nesha has a post with helpful links for planning 2015.

Something I’ve been learning lately is that it’s ok to start small.

Shay tells us why we should build our dreams on epic fails. I completely agree!

Project Launch: Blog Manual

Blog Manual

This has been a very busy past couple of weeks! Brian and I finally set a September 2015 date for our wedding, and we’re starting the process of buying a house. Very exciting! I’ve also been working on a few projects, including one that I’m ready to share with you all. It’s not quite 100% ready (I wanted to fill it with more content first) but I’m just so excited that I can’t wait any longer!

Blog Manual is a new blog where I’ll be sharing tips, resources, tutorials and reviews for bloggers. The idea for this came when I realized that, although I talk about blogging a lot here, I don’t want it to be the only thing I talk about. I also wanted to write and share some articles for beginner bloggers that I would never post here because most of you are already seasoned bloggers. Blog Manual is a collective resource where I can cover all aspects of blogging.

So, please go check it out, and consider submitting a question for me to answer on the site or maybe even submitting a guest post!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you all have a good holiday.

Resources page now open!

You may have already noticed, but I’ve finally completed and opened my resources page! This is a page that I will fill with helpful posts, links, tools and resources that can help your online blog, business or website. I’m happy to share these with you and I hope that you find something there that helps you in some way.

I’ve also planned some more posts here on the blog that I’m hoping will help with any issues or burning questions you may have.

Don’t forget to pin, share and bookmark the page if you find it helpful, and keep checking back because I will be adding more to it.

Blog Resources & Tools

Link Love

Work hard & be nice

Limited edition print by Heather Francisco via Minted

Happy Friday! It’s been a busy week for me, getting back into the swing of things after being on vacation last week. This weekend I’ll probably do some work, start putting up Christmas decorations (Yay!), and maybe even go see The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1.

Take 15% off anything at Creative Market with this coupon!

Melyssa shares how she went from her day job to full-time freelancer in 3 months.

Thanks, Neha, for this freebie desktop wallpaper!

8 things to stop being afraid of so you can be rich, happy, and successful.

Check out Regina’s insanely helpful post, top 15 creative business tools she uses as an infopreneur.

Rekita shares her tips on how to promote your business on social media.

8 ways to boost your blog presence when you’re bored.

Erin teaches us how to make your website tell a story.

In case you missed it, check out these guest posts from last week! How to choose a blog post image worth sharing and How to organize blog post ideas.

5 Things I learned from my trip to Washington, DC

Washington, DC trip - November 2014

Hello! I just got back from a 5-day vacation in Washington, DC. I would have mentioned it before, but I honestly couldn’t think of anything interesting to say other than, “I’m going to Washington, DC.” Brian and I took advantage of a Virgin Airlines $99 flight deal and chose Washington, DC as our destination. I really don’t have a good reason for why we chose this particular place; we both just really wanted to go there and it seemed like a great starter trip for newbie travelers like us (this was Brian’s first time on a plane!).

We had an AMAZING vacation. The weather was perfect (everyone said it would be cold but it was actually warmer than Dallas at the time), we saw almost everything we wanted to see (we even got to go inside of the White House), we stayed in an awesome hotel (pictured above), and boy did we eat some good food. But I also learned some things from my trip that I’m going to apply to my life and business.

I wanna be free.

Taking this trip made me want even more to just be free, and to not be held back by my job. I want to be able to work from anywhere, even if it’s just the coffee shop down the street. I want to be in control of how I spend my days. I want to be able to make my own schedule and take time off when I need it. I know now, more than ever, that I want to be an entrepreneur.

I should take time to enjoy my life.

I hate monotony. The very idea of doing the same things every day for the rest of my life scares the hell out of me. I need to shake things up a little! Travel more, experience more, and just work on being more present in my daily life. It also doesn’t hurt to take some time for yourself to just relax. I don’t think I had a problem with that before, though!

I need to be more active.

People in Washington, DC are so active! There were always people walking, running, and biking, whether it was for work or leisure. We chose to walk everywhere since things were so close together, and walked so much (in one day we seriously walked 10 miles) that our feet were sore every night. Don’t get me wrong, we’re active here in Dallas, but it’s not as noticeable because everything is so spread out and you pretty much have to have a car. In DC, everything is so condensed and compact that you can really see and feel the energy all around you. I’m not able to walk, bike or even use public transportation to get to work because I live way too far, but I can work on being more active in my spare time.

I feel more inspired.

I’m not exactly the same person I was before I left. Something about traveling inspires me in so many ways, and I truly believe it when people say travel can make you so much wiser. Seeing all the historical monuments & architecture, learning more about our history, taking in different scenery and being in a place so different from where I came from gave me a different perspective.

There’s no better time than now.

Even though we booked our trip 6+ months in advance, it was still a last-minute decision. It would have been “safer” financially to do this trip at another time but the deal was for November so we had to take it or not go. I’m so glad we did! It turned out to be the best vacation I’ve had in a very long time. When I eventually become a full-time entrepreneur/freelancer, there will be so much work to do and I’m sure there will be times when things won’t work out the way I planned, but that’s exactly what I want and need. I need to take those risks without being afraid to fail. I’m so tired of playing it safe.

Have you taken any trips lately? There are so many more places I’d like to go!

Also, I’d like to thank Allyssa and Desiree for guest-posting while I was away!

How To Choose A Blog Post Image Worth Sharing

How to choose a blog post image worth sharing

Hello! Today we have a guest post from Desiree Jester.

A picture is worth a thousand words but if your images tell a different tale than your words, it all becomes noise to the reader. Tweet this!

The massive popularity of Pinterest makes it clearer than ever that you need graphics that create an emotional connection with your readers if you want your blog post to stand out from the crowd. So, what goes into a great blog­graphic image? Here are some key elements that you need to look for when you choose an image for your blog graphic.



The most beautiful and dynamic image in the world will not help your blog if the text you are laying on top of it cannot be read. Thin white text on a light background will only serve to frustrate your readers. (Try to read the text in this image without squinting and you will see what I mean.) A good rule of thumb is to choose dark text or elements on lighter images and vise versa. If you have your heart set on a light image and light text, then use a darker overlay in between the text and the image to create contrast.

Negative space

Photo credit Tom Syzmanski

Negative space is a photography term used for describing empty space around the subject. A good image uses negative space to define the subject and to balance it. You will know when you see an image that uses negative space poorly because you feel cramped and overwhelmed just looking at it. It will be the same for your readers. Good use of negative space is vital for a good blog graphic because it allows a natural space for your text to be added.

Connection to your story

This element is the most important one. The images that you add to your post should enhance the story you are telling, not detract. Readers look for the visual elements in your post to tie together the words that they are reading. A well­-chosen picture can impress your story on the reader and make them remember it in a way that another thousand words could not. At the same time, a graphic that competes with your story will seem prevent your story from feeling authentic.

Without a doubt, images have a massive impact on your readers, especially when it comes to sharing via social media. A properly chosen image will leave the reader with an emotional connection that goes far beyond the few moments they spend reading your posts.

Hit me up in the comments! How do you choose your blog photos? What makes a great photo in your eyes?

Make sure you visit Desiree at her blog and follow her on Twitter, Facebook and Bloglovin.

Are you interested in guest posting here on the blog? Contact me for details!